This email was sent by a friend in my condo complex. A lovely lady, she does smoke cigarettes. This isn’t the end of the world—many people smoke—but it does add a different twist to her question. Here is the response I sent her:
Sorry for the delayed response—I think I just replied to you in my head! The answer that came to mind immediately after reading your email was acceptance.
If you’ve read anything I’ve written, you’ll know I’m not a believer in stopping the aging process—because you can’t. I’m more about healthy insides reflecting outwardly as well as daily and weekly maintenance for the health of your outer skin. Wrinkles will start appearing given time. I guesstimate you being mid-30s, give or take, so starting to see wrinkles is normal (although I know unwelcome).
Obviously you smoke, which breaks down collagen fibers and decreases oxygen to the cells. This affects how your lines form and can cause premature aging. I don’t think someone can get away with flawless non-aging skin and be a smoker. The effects of smoking are a big deal to the health of your skin.
Sun exposure, drinking (alcohol), excessive stress, smoking cigarettes, to name a few—all of these can and probably will have an effect on the aging process for those who partake in any or all of these activities. That you are a smoker and you are experiencing what you are calling “deep furrows” seems, to me, pretty much in line with what happens to a smoker’s skin.
I know you want me to say something else. To possibly give you a product or procedure that will fix and possibly erase what is naturally going on with your skin. And perhaps a different aesthetician could and would. But that’s just not me and isn’t how I counsel and educate my clients.
As far as tending to the skin around your eyes and lines that may be forming below your crow’s feet, keeping the skin well-exfoliated and hydrated will help lessen the look of superficial lines. Regular exfoliation is something you want to do to your entire face (and neck), not just that one area where the lines are forming. If you aren’t already using some type of eye treatment cream, that would be another good thing to try. Without keeping that tissue (any tissue) moisturized, the lines will look harder, deeper and more obvious.
I realize you said deep furrows, and if that’s the case the only way to plump up those indentations would be with fillers. Again, I’m not a fan, but that is something that could “solve” your problem.
For details about caring for your skin on a daily and weekly basis, read: